Why do women often say yes, and then NO!  Recently I have been trying to find new experiences I have always wanted.  Many times I have talked with my past girlfriends or my wife and find it makes me crazy!!  In the bedroom they will agree to try your fantasy like 3p and so on, but later they say no.  Don"t you understand that would drive anyone crazy??  It would be better to say no first.  Instead you believe they want to do something, you get excited thinking and planing it, all for nothing! AAAAAAhhhhhh! I am still working to find a balance as partners/lovers but I guess it takes time and patients.

It is hard when you have different views about something.  I hope some of the women out there can respond to this and tell your story.  Maybe she will understand better if she hears a womans thoughts.